Read this from Qi's fren FB...

Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle.
In the beginning, you fell in love with your
spouse/partner.
You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked
their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).

Falling in love with your love wasn't hard.
In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous
experience.
You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called 'falling' in love.
Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.'
Think about the imagery of that __expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing
nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous
experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria
(excitement) of love fades.
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they
come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens),
and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute,
drive you nuts.

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT
PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience.
It'll NEVER just happen to you.
You can't 'find' LASTING love.
You have to 'make' it day in and day out.
That's why we have the __expression 'the labor of
love.'
Because it takes time, effort, and energy.
And most importantly, it takes WISDOM.
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery.
There are specific things you can do (with or without your
spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as
gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you
physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship
WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause
and effect.
If you know and apply the laws, the results are
predictable. you can 'make' love.

Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'. Not just a
feeling.

Note:

'God determines who walks into your life.
It is up to you to decide who you let walk away,
who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'

As i'm not a christian nor catholic, i will rather belive that is fate rather than god that determine who walk in & out of our life. Its our decision to let who go n let who stay! :)

For those who stay:

Thanks for being with me... May us be besties & sweet darling forever~

For those who left:

Hope u r leading a good life out there.

For those who is hesitating to leave for stay:

I hope u can stay n continue being my friend cos we wont know what will happen the nx moment. :)

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*tmr there is someone gg to propose le..*
We r gg to b witness.. i'm kind of excited abt it...
Haha~
All the best to this lovely couple!
Cheers..