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The Significance Of The Six-Month

Thursday, July 16, 2009


6th Month is the first major milestone that both has attained as a couple.

It could be bad or good, but it is inevitable that the fundamental nature of the relationship will transform once you enter the second half of your first year together.

Another level?

I like to equate the six-month mark with a fork in the road. You now have a choice to make -- it may be a subconscious one, but it is still a choice. One path will lead to deeper commitment. The other will look the same as before -- an extended sentence of casual dating or a ticket back to the single life. Even if everything is perfect, the decisions you make now could make or break the relationship. You have both reached the traditional point of no return. Sorry to make it sound foreboding but after six months, you had better come strong or not at all.

Signs you should continue!!

One can never apply a formula to a relationship but in general, every couple experiences a honeymoon period whose nadir coincides with the six-month mark. It is natural to begin hot and heavy -- the primary feature we find attractive at first is the physical.When we start a new relationship, there is a certain level of anxiety to overcome.

There is no comfort zone in the first few months, as couples begin to adjust to each other and deal with new habits and moods. The passion is intense and while a good relationship should maintain it for as long as the couple remains together, it will wane -- or change rather -- with time. Nothing can duplicate the excitement of the physical exchange you shared in the first six months. Too many couples take this as a sign of the apocalypse. Relax. Change is good. If the relationship survives the honeymoon period unscathed, you can rejoice.

This is the first sign that you should move on and complete your first year together.

Your call...

Other telltale signs to watch out for include your phone call frequency. Do you both make the effort to call every day? A solid relationship after six months should include a phone call at the end of the day. This is not dependent or obsessive behavior -- trust me.

When a relationship is solid and destined for greatness, you wake up in the morning thinking about her and fall asleep at night with her on your mind. Sound familiar? Then you can look forward to six more months of bliss.

May us be blessed for the nx 6 more mths.. =)

FootNote: WeiLing is really happy and feel blessed aft a long day @ work. The sweetest thing is getting a pat n a hug to end the day~


Cheers~

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